In this post I'm going to discuss where it all starts and how to make cuckolding happen in your life. There's a lot of nonsense out there and most of it is built on a foundation of misconceptions.
It is true that most cuckolding fantasies and ideas start with the man in the relationship. Most women are just too conservative in their thinking and morality to even think of cuckolding as a) existing and b) being something that they would actually want to try. With the massive amount of porn available online these days most men will eventually stumble across something cuckold or threesome related which will sow the proverbial seed. The first cuckold movie I watched was a short clip that was poorly filmed and didn't leave much of an impression, but the seed got sowed that day.
There are a massive amount of men out there that are by nature submissive and have a cuckolding fetish. All it takes is a trigger to unlock what is buried inside so many of us, whether it be a porno you stumble across, a friend touching your wife or girlfriend in an off limits place by accident or hearing about your wife or girldfriend's prior sexual experiences. A bull that we met many years after setting out on this journey once told us that a true cuckold's wife will always eventually become available.
If you've had thoughts about being a cuckold or the idea turns you on you need to accept that eventually your wife or girlfriend will cuckold you. Accepting it early on and taking a couple of steps in pushing the process along (discussed later in this blog) will ease your journey to the inevitable. This is not something that you can fight, regardless of how hard you try.
Over the next couple of blogs I'm going to help you understand this new world, what's important and what's not. Ignore all those "get cuckolded in 30 days" books and brochures, they are rubbish and only exist to prey on cuckolds that want to learn more. I'm going to share my own experiences and hopefully you too can experience the full wonders of what its like to share the most beautiful thing in the world: your wife.
The Cuck
After we got married my husband and I were in bed after making love talking about our pasts. He told me all his girl friends and his first wife had cheated on him. As he told me everything, I listened and asked about what they did and how he felt. I noticed how his breathing had increased. I hugged him. I wanted him to feel better. Then I noticed he was hard, like really hard. I touched him, wrapping my fingers around him. I looked deep into his eyes and suddenly I realized something important and asked him, “Do you want me to be like them and cheat too?” I couldn't believe his reaction. He was as aroused as I had ever seen him. In the next few days we had several amazing and completely open conversations about his needs and desires. He even admitted his actual interest in cuckolding and showed me stories and articles about cuckolding. After a couple of week of very intimate discussions I finally told him, "Don’t be nervous. My love for you is unconditional. I know you can’t help it. You are who you are. So if you believe being a cuckold epitomizes your inner self. If you know it defines you. You should accept it. You should be proud of it. Your declaration will be the ultimate act of liberation. I promise to enable your every need. I’ll honor and support your proclamation as a symbol of commitment to our relationship and my love will expand in ways you can’t imagine." Am I doing the right thing?
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DeleteWhat you describe happens really often and this is sometimes how some cuckolds actually find out that they have cuckold tendencies while playing with their current partner. At some point every couple discusses past partners in one way or another and men that are cuckolds will instinctively get aroused. The beauty about the lifestyle is that everyone can benefit if done with consent. The other bonus is that you can go as slowly as you both feel comfortable. You will both know very soon if you can handle and cope with the emotional side of things as a couple well before you even have sex with another man. My advice would be to go slow and stop where you feel comfortable as a couple. You have nothing to lose and something really powerful and amazing to gain.
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DeleteI have also wanted my wife to enjoy other men. I would baby sit for all my wife's girlfriends when a Male Review would come to a local club. I also gave my wife's best friend a bunch of ones and asked her to bait the strippers to grind on her. My wife did play and stroke their erections, but I had to hear about it from her best friend. My wife wouldn't share any details with me. I have always loved looking through Playgirl magazines. My wife's friend ended up being my confidant about my attraction to penises. I told her if a situation ever came up with my wife and another guy, that I was down for her fucking him. I'm the guy with the erection in the men's locker room at your local gym. I feel like a girl when I am naked and my small penis grows in front of everyone. Funny, the guys don't even look at my eyes, they totally check out my little pink kitty! So I typically walk with an erection into the shower. I keep the curtain about half way open and other guys get in the shower stall across from me and watch me soap my kitty. I have never been so hard before!!! They stare at me stroking my little pink guy and ejaculate!! I feel like a girl and their attention makes me feel pretty!! So I would love to one day fluff her bull. But to this day I am only able to discuss this with my wife's best friend. I have worn women's underwear in front of my wife's best friend and she teases me about my lack of size because she knows that I crave humiliation. Anyway, I keep hoping and surfing sissy cuckold stories.
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ReplyDeleteIn my experience there are many reasons that a husband becomes a cuckold and the scenario in your excellent article above covers just one of them, which is probably the best way to start. But there are many who have been obliged to accept their cuckoldry due to their Wives having affairs and refusing to end it (probably the most common).
Others, who are less than satisfactory in the marriage bed may have discussed their sexual failure with their Wives, and then given her the ‘go ahead’ to have an affair (possibly the next most common).
There are the ‘Watchers’, who are the guys who sit at the back of a bar or a party and discretely observe his Wife’s flirting and more besides with good looking men – in such cases the cuckold may even advise her on the best man for her to date (not so common these days but still relevant nonetheless).
Then there are cuckolds like me who marry his ‘special one’ in the sure knowledge that she will be bedded by other men. I knew before I married my Jennifer that she had a taste for Black Men and she has kept that strong desire of hers fully assuaged in all of our time together. It was difficult for me in the early days of our marriage but I soon learned to accept my life as a cuckold. Jen and I are still married (over 35 years) and she still has a Lover and we are as happy as two people can be.
So I guess that the background for many cuckold journeys is as varied as life itself. And long may it be so!
Derek
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ReplyDeleteI knew I was fit to be a cuckold when I asked my wife to try it for the first time. She is very reluctant to it and felt that I don't love her as I am giving her away but it is not the case. I wanted her to enjoy the company of other man. She also cheated on me and that hurt a lot. Now she has a boyfriend for almost 2 years now! Time flies so fast and I love watching her videos fucking her boyfriend and listening her moan while getting fucked by another man.
ReplyDeleteOmg after our first time im floating.
ReplyDeleteI have been trying to convince my wife for years she could have it all . But said she is not interested , bull shit
ReplyDeleteI have had "the talk" with my wife but she already knew. she is much more advanced in her knowledge than I am. Example: I offered to buy her an anklet but she laughed and refused telling me it meant "something bad." she wouldn't tell me what it meant. She just smiled because of her innocence. I did not learn what it meant for twenty years until the internet. She knows she is free to have sex with another man; I just don't think she ever will. Until the right man finds her, that is.
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