Thursday, 15 March 2018

The Big Bareback Decision

Safe sex within a cuckold relationship is one of the hottest topics on the topic of cuckolding. For starters there is a big difference between birth control and safe sex. Birth control is only intended to prevent pregnancy and not stop STIs from spreading, whereas safe sex is intended to stop both. Birth control are things like the pill and the patch and safe sex refers to using condoms where you prevent both pregnancy and the spread of bugs.



Obviously the role that semen/cum plays within a cuckold arrangement cannot be understated. At the very least as a couple you need to understand that with any sexual contact and activity with your bull there is a risk of pregnancy, regardless of what birth control you use. Generally birth control is anywhere between 80% and 96% effective depending on which report you read. It is a risk that needs to be accepted by the couple before entering the lifestyle. The are enough pregnant one night stands out there to prove this point.

That being said, that is one of the reasons that this lifestyle can be so edgy and amazing to go through, both the taboo and the risks that all three parties take on every time the bull enters the wife. The two parties that generally want the sex to be bareback are the bull and the husband for obvious reasons. Every single cuckold is turned on by the thought of the bull taking the wife bareback and ejaculating inside her and every bull wants the same.

The bull will want bareback play for several reasons. The first is that it will make sex more pleasurable for him and your wife. It will make sex more spontaneous and bring him closer to your wife sexually. He will also use his cum as a tool to knock you down another rung and serves as the ultimate evidence and method of cementing your position as a cuckold. The are some bulls that will start limiting your sexual contact with your wife, either by insisting that you start wearing condoms or that intercourse is restricted all together.



Barebacking is the one area though within a cuckold relationship where there may be disagreement between you, the wife and the bull. You need to place yourself into your wife's shoes for just a second and consider her point of view if she insists that condoms be used. It's one thing accepting another man's penis inside her body, let alone receiving his semen and the risks that only a woman will take at the end of the day. Women also place a large emotional value on allowing and accepting a man to come inside her.

If your wife is on the fence about going bareback, you and the bull may need to work together on pushing and passing that boundary. Do it carefully and sensitively and you may be surprised at how far she will go. My advice would be to go slowly.

Women, like men, tend to lose their inhibitions and focus when they're turned on. The more turned on the more they give up. Your bull will know this. The first step would be to create as many opportunities as possible between the bull and the wife where they are completely naked and his cock gets to be in close proximity to her vaginal entrance. For example during kissing or in the shower. This will get her used to feeling him around her private parts.

Next would be for an extended foreplay session that drives her absolutely wild with lust and pleasure. With the wife on her back the bull could come up to kiss her while going down on her, spreading her legs and resting his cock on her pussy while he kisses her. He may even be leaking precum which she will feel drip onto her mound. Its important that the bull never actually penetrates her, that would signal a breaking of the trust between them.



The next time they play he may choose to rub his erect penis over her entrance from top to bottom before putting the condom on and entering her. The whole point of this exercise is to get your wife as comfortable and used to having his hard cock at her entrance. Again when the opportunity arises let him rub himself against her opening but this time he should rest his tip just inside her at the bottom of her vaginal opening. If she's horny enough she'll push against him. At this stage the bull should say nothing and neither should you. Once his head is in you know you've crossed a boundary.

The bull should not cum inside her the first time he goes bareback. You've all three taken a huge step in getting this far, and you don't want to ruin a good thing. Plus there'll always be time to push the creampie boundary.

Support your wife if she brings it up, tell her it was hot to see and experience and that you're proud of her. Tell her its fine because he didn't come inside her and it's natures way. Its just another step towards turning you into a fully fledged cuckold.

The Cuck

6 comments:

  1. Hi cuckold,
    These are wonderful moments for the cuckold. You have seen her bull enter her once already with protection, you have given yourself over to being the 'secondary' man in your marriage and now he is going to penetrate her inner being unprotected - skin to skin. Warmth to warmth. Pleasure on pleasure.
    One should remember this moment with joy and with anticipation of the next stage of the cuckold's journey.

    Derek

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  2. Yes, will do!
    Love

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  3. My Goddess is allergic to condoms so decided she was going bare before we ever started.

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  4. I've been the cuckold for twelve years now, and my wife has gone bareback with her lover from the first time they met. It's me who has to wear the condom every time, in the rare instance I'm permitted to have sex with her

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  5. Further thought to my previous post. I agree with Derek above. A wife should not be denied the total pleasure of sex by a condom. Become the full fledged cuck, and embrace the role. My wife has produced two beautiful children that I am financially responsible for, and raising as my own; though we both know I did not father. Her lovers only contribution was a sperm cell, not money. As the cuckold, and 'secondary' man, this is exactly as it should be for me. This is the consequence of my own sexual inadequacy, and my wife needing to be satisfied by a man capable of doing the job properly.

    It fills me with pride to write this paragraph where anyone can read it, that I am a Cuckold who wears the condom in the relationship, and bears the financial burden for another man's children.

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  6. "Women, like men, tend to lose their inhibitions and focus when they're turned on."

    That´s exactly how my wife has been pushing all my boundaries, and she knows it. She have been slowly turning me into a cuckold, breaking me to agree to things I wouldn´t even have imagined I would agree before.

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